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Leah Koenig's avatar

This is an awesome list, thank you! Also, fwiw, the Italian Jewish brother-in-law might also be into Portico: Cooking and Feasting in Rome's Jewish Kitchen. Since I wrote the book, I might be a *teeny bit* biased. But it comes Gwyneth Paltrow-approved too, which might just appeal to his expensive tastes, lol! https://www.amazon.com/Portico-Cooking-Feasting-Jewish-Kitchen/dp/039386801X/

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Bess Kalb's avatar

LOVE THIS

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Katro Rodriguez's avatar

I love everything about this. My fave gift options are the raver husband’s 🤣

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Susie's avatar

My hero. Thank you, Bess!

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Rhiannon D'Averc's avatar

Wine lady's husband making me teary eyed over here with how he describes her

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Amelia Wilson's avatar

Oh my God, I want to know more, more, more about all of these people - I'm talking both the gift recipients and givers! I want photos, and house tours, and closet breakdowns!! They're all fascinating! 😉

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Stephanie Gibson's avatar

This is amazing. I think you should write a gift giving advice column professionally.

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Megan's avatar

love the specificity, also this makes me tempted to spiral out thinking about how my family and friends would describe me in this manner but i will instead soldier on and dream about one day having thousands to spend on one person!

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Susan's avatar

You know, if this whole comedy thing doesn't pan out, you have a second career in being a personal shopper.

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Shawna's avatar

Immediately bought a Pela case for MYSELF.

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R.L. Maizes's avatar

Who would have thought this would be so much fun to read??? (YOU, obviously.)

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PTW's avatar

Damn, Bess. You're good!!!

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Kari Kwinn's avatar

I want (and need) none of these things AND YET I have read and forwarded this post eight times. Brilliant.

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Anna's avatar

THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart! You are incredible.

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Serrah Russell's avatar

these are incredible. you have a gift. thank you.

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